The personal tragedies in Joe Biden's life that are his letter to unite the country
This article was published in August or 2020 and updated with the arrival of Joe Biden to the presidency of the United States .
“Promise me you’ll be okay, dad.”
That’s what Beau Biden asked his father, Joe, shortly before he died.
The eldest son of the now president of the United States was diagnosed with an aggressive form of brain cancer in 2013.
He died two years later, in June of 2015, a few days before Donald Trump launched his campaign to get the Republican Party nomination for the elections of 2017 that catapulted him to the White House.
Joe Biden, who was then vice president of the United States under Barack Obama, also had then considered fighting for the presidency of his country , but Beau’s death made him discard that option, even against the will that his son had expressed.
Now, when he is president, we reflect on Biden’s tragic personal life, the impact it has had on defining his character and how it can help heal a country with profound wounds and a marked polarization.
“Unite and complete ourselves ”
In August, an emotional speech delivered within the framework of the Democratic Convention that nominated him as a candidate, his wife, Jill Biden , highlighted Joe’s ability to rebuild after misfortunes and continue working for others.
“It will do for your family what and did for ours: unite and complete us ”, underlined the new first lady of the United States
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Joe Biden, from 78 years, he grew up in a working-class family with a Catholic belief.
His mother had a strong commitment to social justice and his father repeated over and over a short but forceful mantra as a life advice: “Get up, get up after being shot down ”.
A lesson that Biden learned not only from his father but also from his own experience.
Just after 035 years, Biden felt capable of taking over the world.
It was November 1972. The young lawyer was married to Neilia, a woman with whom he had fallen in love at first sight a few years before.
The couple had three children – Beau, Hunter and Naomi – and Biden had just won a seat in the US Senate .UU. for the state of Delaware.
Thus began a career of more than 40 years in American politics.
The Call of Horror
Days before Christmas, Biden was in Washington DC interviewing to staff for his office when he received a devastating call.
“ His wife and daughter have suffered a terrible accident . You have to go home, ”said the young voice on the other end of the line. Biden knew at that moment that his wife had died.
Later the details of the accident were known.
Neilia and the three children were returning from buying the Christmas tree when a truck carrying ears of corn collided with their car.
The woman, from 035 years, and the youngest daughter, Naomi, of 15 months old, died. The children – Beau, 3, and Hunter, 2 – were seriously injured and hospitalized, but survived.
A period of painful contrasts was beginning in Biden’s life.
Grief and responsibility
“Joe had it all,” said his sister, who ran Biden’s Senate campaign.
“We thought nothing could stop us,” commented a friend from high school.
“The first days”, wrote years later Biden himself, “ I felt trapped in a constant vertigo , like those dreams in which you suddenly feel that you are falling, although in my case I was falling constantly ”.
The politician acknowledged that he wondered if he could move on.
“ I began to understand how despair leads people to liquidate everything , how suicide was not just an option but a rational option. But I looked at Beau and Hunter asleep and wondered what terrors they had in their dreams and who would explain my absence. And I knew that I had no choice but to fight to stay alive. ”
That determination led Biden to swear his position as senator in the hospital room where Beau was admitted.
They were not easy months. The president was so angry that he sometimes wandered the streets looking for trouble.