Monday, December 23

Do not gain more than 6 pounds or get pregnant before the wedding: The 37-rule contract that a bride had her ladies sign

Without a doubt, a wedding can be a stressful event for the bride and groom, their family and even their friends. But the girlfriend in this story decided not to leave any loose ends to prevent any kind of situation from getting out of control during her big day. So designed a contract of 37 rules and had it signed by his ladies in waiting, with demands as far-fetched as not gaining more than six pounds or getting pregnant before the wedding .

The document , that the same girlfriend uploaded to her Facebook account and that it was taken up by The Mirror , specifies in a very specific way the guidelines that the Ladies, her friends, had to continue to appear at the party and accompany the bride.

Among them, their commitment not to gain more than six pounds before the day , not deliberately getting pregnant, not making suggestions to the bride, not wearing colored contact lenses, bright lipstick, not taking their children to the party, wearing the bride’s chosen dress, hairstyle and makeup , as well as having five full days to dedicate to the wedding preparations.

The woman assured that, although initially she counted on having 10 bridesmaids for that day, only six of they were willing to sign the contract of 37 clauses .

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The bride’s contract.

The 37 rules

The Mirror recovered all the rules pointed out by the bride for her bridesmaids that, of course, were harshly criticized on social networks:

  1. I will not try to convince the bride to change anything at her wedding .
  2. I will not speak negatively of anyone at the wedding.
  3. I will not gain more than 3 kilos (6.6 pounds) between today and the wedding.
  4. I will use only black or dark brown hair on the wedding day (you can in accepting wicks with prior approval).
  5. I can’t Use tabs on wedding day unless professionally installed.
  6. I have to attend the bachelorette party, tryouts, rehearsals, and wedding (the only reason why I will not go is death or jail, pregnancy of more than five months and some illness with a recent doctor’s note).
  7. I will take care of my skin, hair and nails from now until the wedding.
  8. The bride will choose my makeup artist on the day of the wedding.
  9. I will agree to use the dress that the bride chooses regardless of my own opinions, style or color.
  10. I will not wear any additional accessories, clothing or jewelry on the wedding day, except my wedding or engagement ring.
  11. I will not intentionally get pregnant before the wedding (pregnancies under five months will not be an excuse for not attending).
  12. I will support the bride in everything what she chooses.
  13. I will not consume more than seven units of alcohol during any event except at the bachelorette party ( there will be no limit).
  14. No I will bring an appointment to the wedding or reception without the approval of the bride.
  15. I will not bring outsiders, except children, to any meeting .
  16. I will not bring my children to the wedding unless they are part of the party (no exceptions).
  17. I’ll make sure to have a responsible babysitter on the day of all events and I understand that not showing up for not having a babysitter will not be a acceptable excuse.
  18. I will not flirt with men at the wedding party.
  19. I will not date anyone at the wedding party that I was not dating prior to signing this contract.
  20. I will be happy and positive at all times during the wedding and reception.
  21. I will not feel sensitive and angry with the girlfriend because I understand you have a bossy attitude .
  22. I will not try to outdo the girlfriend in any way.
  23. I will use the hairstyle that the bride chooses for the wedding day.
  24. I understand that I have to pay for my own dress, shoes and hairstyle for the wedding.
  25. I understand that the bachelorette party may involve a trip .
  26. I understand that I have to buy a bachelorette party shirt and finance my own trip if there is one.
  27. I understand that the bridesmaids will need help to finance some of the events . Wedding and reception are not included.
  28. I understand that the bride doesn’t want any suggestions and this rule is here twice , in two different ways because the bride wants it to be clear. The only suggestion allowed is a way to get your exact item at a cheaper price.
    29. I will not leave the wedding party for any of the reasons mentioned above . If I don’t like something on the list, I will not sign the contract and will be replaced. I understand that not agreeing to the above terms will not ruin the friendship of the bride and myself. But if I sign and accept and then want to leave, it will ruin our friendship.
  29. I understand that no friendship with the bride is greater than any other at her wedding party and everyone will be treated equally.
  30. I understand that I may have to do physical activity at the reception and this requires practices provided by the bride.
  31. colored contact lenses are not allowed.
  32. There are no eyebrows drawn in black or drawn thick (in fact, check the makeup rule cited above).
  33. Not allowed bright colored lipstick (the kind that looks very, very bright and shiny).
  34. No colored nails on the wedding day . The only colors allowed are American, French or nude.
  35. I will provide the bride with my normal seven-day schedule within five days of signing this contract.
  36. I will accept save at least $ 50 dollars per month for the expenses of the next 14 months.

Facebook users rated the girlfriend’s demands as ridiculous and idiotic .